Saturday 15 May 2027
The Wilderness
You’re invited
We are delighted to invite you to our wedding. Our families and friends are massively important to us and we can’t wait to celebrate with you all.
This website should contain all the information you need for the day, but please reach out with any questions.
Becka & Charlie
How it started
Becka and Charlie met online during Covid, in the Rusty Nut Tavern. Their first meeting was not promising: he was trying to sell counterfeit magical items, and she was on the run from a ten-year marriage. They were both playing Dungeons & Dragons.
At the time, she was moving to Ghana and he was planning a move to Singapore, but something about the connection made it feel worth pursuing.
Six years, one house purchase and a new qualification each later, they’re super excited to get married!
Throughout our whole relationship, the people we surround ourselves with have remained a shared passion, and that includes you!
Before you go
Parking spaces and taxi access at the venue are extremely limited! Please read the Travel section.
TravelOur wedding is an adults-only day except for immediate family. Babes in arms welcome. Thank you for your understanding.
Please RSVP by 31 January 2027.
RSVPWe would love for you all to be involved in our day.
ParticipationWear sensible shoes!
What to WearLet us know
Please reply by31 January 2027
Becka & Charliewould love you to join them
Along the way
Saturday 15 May 2027
Pickups from Canterbury West Railway Station and Canterbury Premier Inn.
The main event, with drinks and canapés afterwards.
The moment we know you’ve all been waiting for.
Adding a little pizzazz to the evening.
Coach #1 back to Canterbury.
We would love for you to join us for a folk sing-along. We will have a little book of trad. folk music for those who’d like to get involved, or feel free to lead your own song (please let us know what it is in advance so that we can avoid duplicates!)
Coach #2 back to Canterbury (Premier Inn drop-off).
Getting there
We have arranged coach transport for our guests between Canterbury and the Wilderness.
Car parking spaces and taxi access are extremely limited at the Wilderness and must be arranged by getting in contact with us. Please reach out if you need.
Saturday 15 MayArrival
13:00–13:40
Coaches will be collecting guests from Canterbury West Railway Station and Canterbury Premier Inn at 13:00. The transfer to the venue is 30–40 minutes, so everyone will arrive in time for the ceremony. Please note Canterbury has two stations, and we will only be collecting from Canterbury West!
Saturday 15 MayFirst coach
21:00–21:40
The first coach will leave the venue at 21:00, after the first dance and a little music. It will drop guests at Canterbury West Station around 21:40 and then the Premier Inn shortly after.
Saturday 15 MayLast coach
23:30–00:00
The second (and last) coach will depart the venue at 23:30, and will drop guests at the Canterbury Premier Inn around midnight.
Dress code
Dress fabulous for the forest
Fancy but not formal
The Wilderness spans wildflower meadows and woodland glades, so bring sensible shoes.
It may get chilly in the evening. We will provide a fire pit and blankets for the cold.
We will have tipis and umbrellas ready, just in case of rain.
Join in
We would love for as many people as possible to be involved in our day. Here are some ways you can be a part of it, if you would like.
Send us a colourful scrap of fabric. It might make an appearance on the day!
Share some wisdom with us about life, marriage, or anything else really. There’s space for it when you RSVP.
Communal singing and folk music has been a massive part of our relationship. We are finishing our evening with a trad. folk session. Everyone is welcome to listen or join in, and if you’d like to lead a song then get in touch.
Gifts
Your being there is the greatest gift of all.
We’re planning a honeymoon in Costa Rica, so if you’d like to give us something, we’ll most likely be asking for contributions towards our adventures there. Details to follow.